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A very heartfelt July 4th on the Oregon Coast with @newportsymphonyorchestra 🇺🇸 🎶🎆

Treasured time with @coma_ebner @tyler.g.ebner @alyse_i_perez @victoria_k_e and dear friends across the decades, Maestro Adam Flatt and NSO players, who I’ve been blessed to have done many concerts with!✨

Experiences like this make me viscerally grateful for every word of Katharine Bate’s original lyrics to America the Beautiful:

America. A Poem for July 4.
1893 poem (original)

O beautiful for halcyon skies,
For amber waves of grain,
For purple mountain majesties
Above the enameled plain!
America! America!
God shed his grace on thee
Till souls wax fair as earth and air
And music-hearted sea!

O beautiful for pilgrim feet,
Whose stern, impassioned stress
A thoroughfare for freedom beat
Across the wilderness!
America! America!
God shed his grace on thee
Till paths be wrought through wilds of thought
By pilgrim foot and knee!

O beautiful for glory-tale
Of liberating strife,
When once and twice, for man’s avail,
Men lavished precious life!
America! America!
God shed his grace on thee
Till selfish gain no longer stain
The banner of the free!

A very heartfelt July 4th on the Oregon Coast with @newportsymphonyorchestra 🇺🇸 🎶🎆

Treasured time with @coma_ebner @tyler.g.ebner @alyse_i_perez @victoria_k_e and dear friends across the decades, Maestro Adam Flatt and NSO players, who I’ve been blessed to have done many concerts with!✨

Experiences like this make me viscerally grateful for every word of Katharine Bate’s original lyrics to America the Beautiful:

America. A Poem for July 4.
1893 poem (original)

O beautiful for halcyon skies,
For amber waves of grain,
For purple mountain majesties
Above the enameled plain!
America! America!
God shed his grace on thee
Till souls wax fair as earth and air
And music-hearted sea!

O beautiful for pilgrim feet,
Whose stern, impassioned stress
A thoroughfare for freedom beat
Across the wilderness!
America! America!
God shed his grace on thee
Till paths be wrought through wilds of thought
By pilgrim foot and knee!

O beautiful for glory-tale
Of liberating strife,
When once and twice, for man’s avail,
Men lavished precious life!
America! America!
God shed his grace on thee
Till selfish gain no longer stain
The banner of the free!

📣 Thrilled to announce three EXCITING upcoming performances!

🧨 JULY 4th - this week! - Great American Songbook favorites (arranged by legendary Norman Leyden) with @newportsymphonyorchestra, conducted by Maestro Adam Flatt. My third patriotic concert with the NSO! A *FREE* concert for the community to enjoy!

🎞️ OCTOBER 4 - **STAYED TUNED FOR THE OFFICIAL ANNOUNCEMENT THIS MONTH!** Season Opener for @rossragland - NOIR: A CONCERT IN SHADOWS & SEDUCTION with brilliant pianist and friend @suzannejstewart, written & directed by dynamic duo @audbros @williamcowser @parkerrawlins

💖 OCTOBER 11 - SING FOR THE CURE with @orsingers, benefitting @pinklemonadeproject — 25th Anniversary of this impactful choral work.

Scan the QR codes to learn more and purchase tickets!

📸 photographs by talented @anamoniquebeauty and @manzanita_photography

📣 Thrilled to announce three EXCITING upcoming performances!

🧨 JULY 4th - this week! - Great American Songbook favorites (arranged by legendary Norman Leyden) with @newportsymphonyorchestra, conducted by Maestro Adam Flatt. My third patriotic concert with the NSO! A *FREE* concert for the community to enjoy!

🎞️ OCTOBER 4 - **STAYED TUNED FOR THE OFFICIAL ANNOUNCEMENT THIS MONTH!** Season Opener for @rossragland - NOIR: A CONCERT IN SHADOWS & SEDUCTION with brilliant pianist and friend @suzannejstewart, written & directed by dynamic duo @audbros @williamcowser @parkerrawlins

💖 OCTOBER 11 - SING FOR THE CURE with @orsingers, benefitting @pinklemonadeproject — 25th Anniversary of this impactful choral work.

Scan the QR codes to learn more and purchase tickets!

📸 photographs by talented @anamoniquebeauty and @manzanita_photography

June was a magnificent mountain.🏔️

With breathtaking views, rocky trails and a reminder that the climb is always better hand-in-hand with those whose love lights the way forward.

Isaiah 43:19
“Behold, I am doing a new thing;
now it springs forth, do you not perceive it?
I will make a way in the wilderness
and rivers in the desert.”

So much on the horizon to be thankful for, to cherish, to ponder, to surrender, to trust, to act upon, and to look forward to!

My heart is filled to the brim watching the kids succeed academically and personally, celebrating 22 years with silver fox @coma_ebner, spending incredibly beautiful and restorative time with dear friends @rachelramsey82 @kellyswindell as they walked along the Oregon Coast for the first time, honoring the life of my Grandmother Dolores with family, and turning the page to a thrilling new chapter.🌅

June was a magnificent mountain.🏔️

With breathtaking views, rocky trails and a reminder that the climb is always better hand-in-hand with those whose love lights the way forward.

Isaiah 43:19
“Behold, I am doing a new thing;
now it springs forth, do you not perceive it?
I will make a way in the wilderness
and rivers in the desert.”

So much on the horizon to be thankful for, to cherish, to ponder, to surrender, to trust, to act upon, and to look forward to!

My heart is filled to the brim watching the kids succeed academically and personally, celebrating 22 years with silver fox @coma_ebner, spending incredibly beautiful and restorative time with dear friends @rachelramsey82 @kellyswindell as they walked along the Oregon Coast for the first time, honoring the life of my Grandmother Dolores with family, and turning the page to a thrilling new chapter.🌅

22 years ago I walked down the aisle to marry (then) Captain Tim Ebner 💍…

But one year before (5-20-2002), a handsome fighter pilot with a twinkle in his eye was assigned to present Miss America 2002 with a signed lithograph, escort her around PANG Base, and give her a special view of the mighty F-15 Eagle. Although she’d made hundreds of appearances throughout the year, meeting thousands of people, Miss America’s travel companion noticed something different about this particular pilot — and a chemistry between the two that was undeniable. So Joann the traveling companion gave the pilot Miss America’s contact information, and soon thereafter the pilot asked Miss America out on a date. And the rest, they say, is history. 🥂

Reminiscing with immense gratitude for our truly unexpected meet-cute, and more importantly the 23 years together since that memorable day.❤️

A little look back with rarely shared media:
(VIDEO 1) Lt. Ebner’s humor is front and center deflecting nerves while meeting Miss America. “This is signed by guys way older than me.”🤣
(Photo 2) Yes, I still treasure this lithograph!
(Video 3) @coma_ebner’s students aren’t nearly as smiley when he tells them about takeoffs.🛫
(Photo 4) Smitten 🤩
(Photo 5) The crown looks good with a flight suit, right @madiisabellaa?👑
(Video 6) Couldn’t hear a word he was saying but he sure looked good while talking.
(Photo 7) Captain America proposed after this Veteran’s Day flyover ✨
(Photo 8) An epic engagement photo on top of the F-15 by Ben Powers 📸
(Photos 9 & 10) I do, forever.❤️

22 years ago I walked down the aisle to marry (then) Captain Tim Ebner 💍…

But one year before (5-20-2002), a handsome fighter pilot with a twinkle in his eye was assigned to present Miss America 2002 with a signed lithograph, escort her around PANG Base, and give her a special view of the mighty F-15 Eagle. Although she’d made hundreds of appearances throughout the year, meeting thousands of people, Miss America’s travel companion noticed something different about this particular pilot — and a chemistry between the two that was undeniable. So Joann the traveling companion gave the pilot Miss America’s contact information, and soon thereafter the pilot asked Miss America out on a date. And the rest, they say, is history. 🥂

Reminiscing with immense gratitude for our truly unexpected meet-cute, and more importantly the 23 years together since that memorable day.❤️

A little look back with rarely shared media:
(VIDEO 1) Lt. Ebner’s humor is front and center deflecting nerves while meeting Miss America. “This is signed by guys way older than me.”🤣
(Photo 2) Yes, I still treasure this lithograph!
(Video 3) @coma_ebner’s students aren’t nearly as smiley when he tells them about takeoffs.🛫
(Photo 4) Smitten 🤩
(Photo 5) The crown looks good with a flight suit, right @madiisabellaa?👑
(Video 6) Couldn’t hear a word he was saying but he sure looked good while talking.
(Photo 7) Captain America proposed after this Veteran’s Day flyover ✨
(Photo 8) An epic engagement photo on top of the F-15 by Ben Powers 📸
(Photos 9 & 10) I do, forever.❤️

A very Happy Birthday to my fearless and faithful finder-of-the-fun (and fav Gemini) @coma_ebner 🌅

We love you so much, Timmy ❤️

A very Happy Birthday to my fearless and faithful finder-of-the-fun (and fav Gemini) @coma_ebner 🌅

We love you so much, Timmy ❤️

And exhale. 🌊

MDW 2025

Craving joy? Stop comparing. Find the magic in exactly where you are right this minute, and embrace it with both arms, a full heart, a clear mind and a sense of wonder.✨

And exhale. 🌊

MDW 2025

Craving joy? Stop comparing. Find the magic in exactly where you are right this minute, and embrace it with both arms, a full heart, a clear mind and a sense of wonder.✨

Honoring those who gave their lives in service to their country, today and everyday.🇺🇸

One of the most significant honors of my life was to lay a wreath at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier in early October 2001, my second week serving as Miss America. @missamerica #missamerica2002

The Tomb of the Unknown Soldier at Arlington National Cemetery in Virginia, is a memorial dedicated to the unidentified American soldiers who died in various wars. The first Unknown Soldier, from World War I, was interred in 1921.

The reverence observed during each wreath-laying ceremony, and also the guarding of the tomb, is deeply moving.

Memorial Day invites us all to pay tribute to those who paid the ultimate sacrifice and paved the path for the dreams of Americans they would never know. May we harbor immense gratitude for this priceless gift.

Honoring those who gave their lives in service to their country, today and everyday.🇺🇸

One of the most significant honors of my life was to lay a wreath at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier in early October 2001, my second week serving as Miss America. @missamerica #missamerica2002

The Tomb of the Unknown Soldier at Arlington National Cemetery in Virginia, is a memorial dedicated to the unidentified American soldiers who died in various wars. The first Unknown Soldier, from World War I, was interred in 1921.

The reverence observed during each wreath-laying ceremony, and also the guarding of the tomb, is deeply moving.

Memorial Day invites us all to pay tribute to those who paid the ultimate sacrifice and paved the path for the dreams of Americans they would never know. May we harbor immense gratitude for this priceless gift.

PART 3: The rest of the story.🎓 (Feb 17, 2024)

Being brave only requires you to say “Yes.” Yes is the first step. Take it and your feet will follow. Along with your heart, head and all the parts of the masterpiece that makes you, you.

You don’t need to know how it will all turn out either. You don’t even have to be interesting or the most experienced person in the room.

Simply say yes to the next right thing *you* can do.

Being protested was a profoundly powerful experience for me as a 21-year-old, who sought to be loved and seen and accepted like any and all humans do. But it wasn’t the action of the protesters that was profound to me, it was my reaction. My choice to acknowledge why they felt the way they did while also honoring my believe in my service as Miss America.

When you choose to believe in YOU, it’s also the bravest way to love others.

… and let’s all say “Yes” to more of that!

Hear more from “Bring My Crown!” 👑 on all streaming platforms and at bringmycrown.com

PART 3: The rest of the story.🎓 (Feb 17, 2024)

Being brave only requires you to say “Yes.” Yes is the first step. Take it and your feet will follow. Along with your heart, head and all the parts of the masterpiece that makes you, you.

You don’t need to know how it will all turn out either. You don’t even have to be interesting or the most experienced person in the room.

Simply say yes to the next right thing *you* can do.

Being protested was a profoundly powerful experience for me as a 21-year-old, who sought to be loved and seen and accepted like any and all humans do. But it wasn’t the action of the protesters that was profound to me, it was my reaction. My choice to acknowledge why they felt the way they did while also honoring my believe in my service as Miss America.

When you choose to believe in YOU, it’s also the bravest way to love others.

… and let’s all say “Yes” to more of that!

Hear more from “Bring My Crown!” 👑 on all streaming platforms and at bringmycrown.com

PART 2: Sondheim alway said it best.📝 (Feb 17, 2024)
… plus the the conclusion to the story behind this performance in PART 3 ➡️

Everybody says don’t
Everybody says don’t
Everybody says
Don’t, it isn’t right
Don’t, it isn’t nice
Everybody says don’t
Everybody says don’t
Everybody says
Don’t walk on the grass
Don’t disturb the peace
Don’t skate on the ice

Well, I say do
I say walk on the grass, it was meant to feel
I say sail
Tilt at the windmill
And if you fail, you fail

Everybody says don’t
Everybody says don’t
Everybody says
Don’t get out of line
When they say that, then
Lady, that’s a sign
Nine times out of ten
Lady, you are doing just fine

Life keeps happening every day
Say yes
When opportunities come your way
You can’t start wondering what to say
You never win if you never play
Say yes
There’s mink and marigold right outside
And long white Cadillacs you can ride
But nothing’s gained if there’s nothing tried
Say yes

Don’t say “why?”
Say “why not?”
What lies beyond what is
Is not
So what?
Say yes

Make just a ripple
Come on, be brave
This time a ripple
Next time a wave
Sometimes you have to start small
Climbing the tiniest wall
Maybe you’re going to fall
But it’s better than not starting at all

Everybody says no
Everybody says stop
Everybody says
Musn’t rock the boat
Musn’t touch a thing
Everybody says don’t
Everybody says wait
Everybody says can’t fight city hall
Can’t upset the court
Can’t laugh at the king

Well, I say try
I say laugh at the kings or they’ll make you cry
Lose your poise
Fall if you have to
But, lady, make a noise

Yes, I’ll walk
Yes, I’ll look
Yes, I’d love to do such and such
Yes, I’ll try
Yes, I’ll dare
Yes, I’ll fly
Yes, I’ll share
Yes, I’d happily, thank you very much
Yes
Oh, yes

Everybody says don’t
Everybody says can’t
Everybody says
Wait around for miracles
That’s the way the world is made
I insist on miracles, if you do them
Miracles, nothing to them
Say yes
Don’t be afraid

PART 2: Sondheim alway said it best.📝 (Feb 17, 2024)
… plus the the conclusion to the story behind this performance in PART 3 ➡️

Everybody says don’t
Everybody says don’t
Everybody says
Don’t, it isn’t right
Don’t, it isn’t nice
Everybody says don’t
Everybody says don’t
Everybody says
Don’t walk on the grass
Don’t disturb the peace
Don’t skate on the ice

Well, I say do
I say walk on the grass, it was meant to feel
I say sail
Tilt at the windmill
And if you fail, you fail

Everybody says don’t
Everybody says don’t
Everybody says
Don’t get out of line
When they say that, then
Lady, that’s a sign
Nine times out of ten
Lady, you are doing just fine

Life keeps happening every day
Say yes
When opportunities come your way
You can’t start wondering what to say
You never win if you never play
Say yes
There’s mink and marigold right outside
And long white Cadillacs you can ride
But nothing’s gained if there’s nothing tried
Say yes

Don’t say “why?”
Say “why not?”
What lies beyond what is
Is not
So what?
Say yes

Make just a ripple
Come on, be brave
This time a ripple
Next time a wave
Sometimes you have to start small
Climbing the tiniest wall
Maybe you’re going to fall
But it’s better than not starting at all

Everybody says no
Everybody says stop
Everybody says
Musn’t rock the boat
Musn’t touch a thing
Everybody says don’t
Everybody says wait
Everybody says can’t fight city hall
Can’t upset the court
Can’t laugh at the king

Well, I say try
I say laugh at the kings or they’ll make you cry
Lose your poise
Fall if you have to
But, lady, make a noise

Yes, I’ll walk
Yes, I’ll look
Yes, I’d love to do such and such
Yes, I’ll try
Yes, I’ll dare
Yes, I’ll fly
Yes, I’ll share
Yes, I’d happily, thank you very much
Yes
Oh, yes

Everybody says don’t
Everybody says can’t
Everybody says
Wait around for miracles
That’s the way the world is made
I insist on miracles, if you do them
Miracles, nothing to them
Say yes
Don’t be afraid

When have you said yes while others were telling you no?

🎶”Everybody Says Don’t/Say Yes” PART 1 (Feb 17, 2024)
… and hear the song in PART 2 and story’s conclusion in PART 3!

For 20 years, I resisted sharing the story of when I was protested after being asked to deliver the commencement address at Portland State University’s 2002 graduation ceremony.

Miss America in the early aughts — before Facebook and social media, before gendered norms started expanding, before body positivity movements and greater social inclusion — meant most people viewed the role on a whiplash-inducing spectrum between “America’s ideal girl next door” to “an outdated and harmful weapon against the modern woman.” And I truly heard and felt all of their varied opinions.

During the pandemic, I finally shared the story with a small group of trusted friends when we were each contemplating the past and the future for artists like us. It was liberating, to say the least. And it helped me remove this ridiculous notion that being protested somehow tarnished the crown.

I included the story in the original Broadway cabaret debut of “Bring My Crown!” in 2022, and then expanded it to include this medley of Sondheim’s “Everybody Says Don’t/Say Yes” in 2024… and these powerful lyrics just keep ringing in my ears!!

Ironically, I resisted sharing video from this show for nearly 18 months afterwards because (a) I was ashamed that I had gained 30 pounds of hormone weight in 2023, (b) was wrestling with very confusing reactions from people to “midlife-Katie” (c) foolishly overthinking, well… everything.

Turns out the antidote to overthinking is trust. Trust in the process of sharing authentically thru art. Trust in my value beyond age and weight. Trust in my actions as a 21-year-old college student to make a positive impact because I was consciously doing what I felt was the next right thing.

Interestingly, when I quieted the noise from other’s opinions and overthinking, I was able to shed emotional, mental and physical weight in many forms, and zero in with clarity on the very heart of this message: sharing is saying “Yes” to possibility and “No” to fear.✨

When have you said yes while others were telling you no?

🎶”Everybody Says Don’t/Say Yes” PART 1 (Feb 17, 2024)
… and hear the song in PART 2 and story’s conclusion in PART 3!

For 20 years, I resisted sharing the story of when I was protested after being asked to deliver the commencement address at Portland State University’s 2002 graduation ceremony.

Miss America in the early aughts — before Facebook and social media, before gendered norms started expanding, before body positivity movements and greater social inclusion — meant most people viewed the role on a whiplash-inducing spectrum between “America’s ideal girl next door” to “an outdated and harmful weapon against the modern woman.” And I truly heard and felt all of their varied opinions.

During the pandemic, I finally shared the story with a small group of trusted friends when we were each contemplating the past and the future for artists like us. It was liberating, to say the least. And it helped me remove this ridiculous notion that being protested somehow tarnished the crown.

I included the story in the original Broadway cabaret debut of “Bring My Crown!” in 2022, and then expanded it to include this medley of Sondheim’s “Everybody Says Don’t/Say Yes” in 2024… and these powerful lyrics just keep ringing in my ears!!

Ironically, I resisted sharing video from this show for nearly 18 months afterwards because (a) I was ashamed that I had gained 30 pounds of hormone weight in 2023, (b) was wrestling with very confusing reactions from people to “midlife-Katie” (c) foolishly overthinking, well… everything.

Turns out the antidote to overthinking is trust. Trust in the process of sharing authentically thru art. Trust in my value beyond age and weight. Trust in my actions as a 21-year-old college student to make a positive impact because I was consciously doing what I felt was the next right thing.

Interestingly, when I quieted the noise from other’s opinions and overthinking, I was able to shed emotional, mental and physical weight in many forms, and zero in with clarity on the very heart of this message: sharing is saying “Yes” to possibility and “No” to fear.✨

We can’t behave like people in novels, though, can we?

- Edith Wharton, The Age of Innocence -

Romanticize the life you’ve been given. For it is wild, precious, awe-inspiring and fleeting.✨

Our family, April 2025

Captured with such care and wonder by @manzanita_photography

@coma_ebner
@tyler.g.ebner
@victoria_k_e

We can’t behave like people in novels, though, can we?

- Edith Wharton, The Age of Innocence -

Romanticize the life you’ve been given. For it is wild, precious, awe-inspiring and fleeting.✨

Our family, April 2025

Captured with such care and wonder by @manzanita_photography

@coma_ebner
@tyler.g.ebner
@victoria_k_e

Happiest: when dilly dallying.
{Charming typography & inspiration by @lexy_styles}

🥐 Easter Brunch at @camillesbistro

Ensemble is a picnic of well-loved pieces from seasons past. Gingham is forever, and I reach for it with glee each spring. Buy things you’ll wear over and over again with delight. Better for your creativity and confidence + far kinder on our planet and your coffers.

Jacket @veronicabeard
Dress @wearekindred
Vintage basket bag @ladyholiday1973
Ballet flats @schutz (so comfortable!)
Hosiery @wolford
Earrings @ladygreyjewelry
Sunnies @target
Sweet scarf gift @mrs.a.deese

Should you feel so inclined, I’d be thrilled if you kept an eye out for my next chapter to be revealed over at katieharman.com. In the meantime, I’ll keep sharing peeks and updates on this platform. Because there is no dally without a dash of dilly.✨

Happiest: when dilly dallying.
{Charming typography & inspiration by @lexy_styles}

🥐 Easter Brunch at @camillesbistro

Ensemble is a picnic of well-loved pieces from seasons past. Gingham is forever, and I reach for it with glee each spring. Buy things you’ll wear over and over again with delight. Better for your creativity and confidence + far kinder on our planet and your coffers.

Jacket @veronicabeard
Dress @wearekindred
Vintage basket bag @ladyholiday1973
Ballet flats @schutz (so comfortable!)
Hosiery @wolford
Earrings @ladygreyjewelry
Sunnies @target
Sweet scarf gift @mrs.a.deese

Should you feel so inclined, I’d be thrilled if you kept an eye out for my next chapter to be revealed over at katieharman.com. In the meantime, I’ll keep sharing peeks and updates on this platform. Because there is no dally without a dash of dilly.✨

My entire being felt the profound impact of Easter over the weekend. Tim squeezed my hand extra tight as we watched our son confirmed into the Catholic church during Easter vigil Saturday night. I had no idea what to expect during this special mass and was impacted in new ways by the homily message illuminating that when Jesus rose from the grave, He showed us a new direction. He didn’t go back to the way things had been even tho the path he trod before was revolutionary. He showed us a NEW way. Formed a new direction, far beyond comfort zone and human comprehension.

The homily also mentioned the legacy of young Carlo Acutis (soon to be canonized) and his reminder that, “All people are born as originals but many die as photocopies.”

As midnight was nearing, Tyler’s cousin Daniel stood behind him, hand on his shoulder in sponsorship and support of Tyler’s profession of faith. I was witnessing my grown child follow Christ’s example to go in the direction he chose, informed by how he wants to worship. It was immensely beautiful.

My sweet Victoria held my other hand as we watched the baptisms. We also marveled at the loveliest expression of family in the mother in the pew in front of us with her son, daughter and their abuela who was very advanced in age. They were so caring toward each other, with the little boy holding his abuela’s hand and helping to adjust her veil, and the mother and daughter whispering gently in her ear, translating the service into Spanish. She held an ornate vigil candle and lovingly made sure her grandson didn’t light the neighboring pewmate’s hair on fire with his. During the 4.5 hour mass, their devotion and compassion for one another was such a positive example.

New blooms also caught my eye, everywhere. Easter blesses us with the truth that endings are merely the soil in which new beginnings take root… and I pray that each of us feel invited to celebrate seasonal growth in our own way, with respect, peace and freedom.

From my heart to yours, Happy Easter! 🌅

My entire being felt the profound impact of Easter over the weekend. Tim squeezed my hand extra tight as we watched our son confirmed into the Catholic church during Easter vigil Saturday night. I had no idea what to expect during this special mass and was impacted in new ways by the homily message illuminating that when Jesus rose from the grave, He showed us a new direction. He didn’t go back to the way things had been even tho the path he trod before was revolutionary. He showed us a NEW way. Formed a new direction, far beyond comfort zone and human comprehension.

The homily also mentioned the legacy of young Carlo Acutis (soon to be canonized) and his reminder that, “All people are born as originals but many die as photocopies.”

As midnight was nearing, Tyler’s cousin Daniel stood behind him, hand on his shoulder in sponsorship and support of Tyler’s profession of faith. I was witnessing my grown child follow Christ’s example to go in the direction he chose, informed by how he wants to worship. It was immensely beautiful.

My sweet Victoria held my other hand as we watched the baptisms. We also marveled at the loveliest expression of family in the mother in the pew in front of us with her son, daughter and their abuela who was very advanced in age. They were so caring toward each other, with the little boy holding his abuela’s hand and helping to adjust her veil, and the mother and daughter whispering gently in her ear, translating the service into Spanish. She held an ornate vigil candle and lovingly made sure her grandson didn’t light the neighboring pewmate’s hair on fire with his. During the 4.5 hour mass, their devotion and compassion for one another was such a positive example.

New blooms also caught my eye, everywhere. Easter blesses us with the truth that endings are merely the soil in which new beginnings take root… and I pray that each of us feel invited to celebrate seasonal growth in our own way, with respect, peace and freedom.

From my heart to yours, Happy Easter! 🌅

⛳️ Biding my time ‘til the day I get to wear a caddie vest for @victoria_k_e

My current resume lists handing over a putter with theatrical flair, driving the cart with gusto, and seeking out après tourney snacks. But she’s the one with the birdies! 🐦‍⬛

My best girl, I’m glad you still let me golf with you in spite of my truly terrible swing.💚

⛳️ Biding my time ‘til the day I get to wear a caddie vest for @victoria_k_e

My current resume lists handing over a putter with theatrical flair, driving the cart with gusto, and seeking out après tourney snacks. But she’s the one with the birdies! 🐦‍⬛

My best girl, I’m glad you still let me golf with you in spite of my truly terrible swing.💚

I see you, Spring! Welcome🌷

While my current reality is March snow, I stand in ardent hope for April showers to indeed bring those May flowers… along with all the beauty that new blooms represent.

I *love* creating a vision board on the first day of Spring rather than the first of the new year… because Winter is a time of reflection and rest, preparing the soul/soil for new growth. Then we feel the natural pull in Spring to plant new seeds (goals) and move into action when the sun is warmer, the days are longer and the birds sing louder.

Vision boards are akin to “vision planting” and it is a practice we highly encourage as part of our Seasonal Perspective for creative productivity at @virtuosasociety. When assembled alongside lovely humans also aspiring to clarify their vision for the year ahead, they are all the more nourishing and powerful reminders of how community helps our seeds/goals to flourish. Many thanks to dear friends @roxmod @thisturnedonlife @deviseetal.art for a truly LOVELY afternoon of vision board crafting to ring in the first day of Spring on Thursday!🩷

As you dream of Spring, I highly encourage you to host your own Vision Board Garden Party — even if it is a party of one! — to help cultivate mental clarity, promote joy thru a simple creative act and free your spirit from the weight of the world that can easily press down on your shoulders.

Take a deep breath too, because winds of change are already in the air. ✨

I see you, Spring! Welcome🌷

While my current reality is March snow, I stand in ardent hope for April showers to indeed bring those May flowers… along with all the beauty that new blooms represent.

I *love* creating a vision board on the first day of Spring rather than the first of the new year… because Winter is a time of reflection and rest, preparing the soul/soil for new growth. Then we feel the natural pull in Spring to plant new seeds (goals) and move into action when the sun is warmer, the days are longer and the birds sing louder.

Vision boards are akin to “vision planting” and it is a practice we highly encourage as part of our Seasonal Perspective for creative productivity at @virtuosasociety. When assembled alongside lovely humans also aspiring to clarify their vision for the year ahead, they are all the more nourishing and powerful reminders of how community helps our seeds/goals to flourish. Many thanks to dear friends @roxmod @thisturnedonlife @deviseetal.art for a truly LOVELY afternoon of vision board crafting to ring in the first day of Spring on Thursday!🩷

As you dream of Spring, I highly encourage you to host your own Vision Board Garden Party — even if it is a party of one! — to help cultivate mental clarity, promote joy thru a simple creative act and free your spirit from the weight of the world that can easily press down on your shoulders.

Take a deep breath too, because winds of change are already in the air. ✨

While Winter feels 900 days long, rest assured it is indeed waining and warming. As I sit in this transition from Winter to Spring, I’m reflecting on the surrender needed to truly accept the gift of the present. 💝

I shared this specific story with our @vituosasociety newsletter subscribers recently and felt compelled to share it with you, my friends, in case you too need a gentle nudge to notice the treasure in whatever you’re doing right this second.

These next few weeks are also ripe with expectancy — which can feel a bit like whiplash while also trying to stay present but is a key component to seasonal perspective (aka: aiming your productivity to mirror the natural ebbs and flows of each season).

After months of planning, my new coaching + lifestyle content website is *very nearly ready* for launch, and I’m feeling both vulnerable and excited. Anyone else find it nerve-wracking to put yourself out there on socials?! Eeeek! But also, HOORAY for hanging out your shingle! (Love that old chestnut of a phrase.)

Over the past twenty-five years, I’ve been incredibly lucky to serve as a spokesperson and advocate, a professional storyteller thru song onstage, a vocal coach helping singers master technique, a mentor for aspiring pageant titleholders, and a guide for creatives to feel supported in pursuit of their passions.

Through it all, my passion has been helping people see and harness their own brilliance. Now, I’m channeling that experience into a personalized coaching service to help you uncover and amplify the qualities you already possess that will help you reach your goals.

Sign up for my newsletter to get the first word when the site is live!! Or send me a DM if you’re interested in coaching. It would be my joy to help you realize your dreams.✨

For now, you’ll find me sitting in the in-between with a sleepy smile on my face and cozy beneath the gratitude of time I’ll never get back again but am sure glad I’ve had.

While Winter feels 900 days long, rest assured it is indeed waining and warming. As I sit in this transition from Winter to Spring, I’m reflecting on the surrender needed to truly accept the gift of the present. 💝

I shared this specific story with our @vituosasociety newsletter subscribers recently and felt compelled to share it with you, my friends, in case you too need a gentle nudge to notice the treasure in whatever you’re doing right this second.

These next few weeks are also ripe with expectancy — which can feel a bit like whiplash while also trying to stay present but is a key component to seasonal perspective (aka: aiming your productivity to mirror the natural ebbs and flows of each season).

After months of planning, my new coaching + lifestyle content website is *very nearly ready* for launch, and I’m feeling both vulnerable and excited. Anyone else find it nerve-wracking to put yourself out there on socials?! Eeeek! But also, HOORAY for hanging out your shingle! (Love that old chestnut of a phrase.)

Over the past twenty-five years, I’ve been incredibly lucky to serve as a spokesperson and advocate, a professional storyteller thru song onstage, a vocal coach helping singers master technique, a mentor for aspiring pageant titleholders, and a guide for creatives to feel supported in pursuit of their passions.

Through it all, my passion has been helping people see and harness their own brilliance. Now, I’m channeling that experience into a personalized coaching service to help you uncover and amplify the qualities you already possess that will help you reach your goals.

Sign up for my newsletter to get the first word when the site is live!! Or send me a DM if you’re interested in coaching. It would be my joy to help you realize your dreams.✨

For now, you’ll find me sitting in the in-between with a sleepy smile on my face and cozy beneath the gratitude of time I’ll never get back again but am sure glad I’ve had.

Love you.🩷 Mean it.💋

Love you.🩷 Mean it.💋

Like living in a snowglobe ✨

My wfh backyard view this radiant 8*F morning.

Like living in a snowglobe ✨

My wfh backyard view this radiant 8*F morning.

ootd lewks lately

The only constant these first weeks of ‘25 has been unpredictability! My January goal: be as present as possible with the multi-generations of my family, and fully embrace (and apply) the flexibility required to do so. In the midst of some big life events at present!!

Finding the fun in some “new-to-me” denim silhouettes
— but keeping the “old” with a touch of fanciful whimsy.

How have you embraced the January pace? Share, please! I love hearing your thoughts in this space.✨

ootd lewks lately

The only constant these first weeks of ‘25 has been unpredictability! My January goal: be as present as possible with the multi-generations of my family, and fully embrace (and apply) the flexibility required to do so. In the midst of some big life events at present!!

Finding the fun in some “new-to-me” denim silhouettes
— but keeping the “old” with a touch of fanciful whimsy.

How have you embraced the January pace? Share, please! I love hearing your thoughts in this space.✨

Intentional pacing is such a valuable skill to learn. You may be fooled into believing that if you don’t rush, you’ll “miss out” (FOMO) or that others will pass you by. But the real truth is that what is meant for you will happen in its perfect timing.

Last year, I began applying an intentional seasonal perspective to my productivity — which I use to grow and operate @virtuosasociety (see our recent BLOG post on this!) as well as engage more mindfully with what was most important in other areas of my life.

That meant prioritizing rest, reflection and nourishment in Winter and setting my goals in early Spring. Taking action to achieve those goals in Summer and committing to sharing the “fruit” of those goals in Fall.

Just as a seasonal cycle flows in its own time, I’m learning to trust that God, who made the heavens and the earth, is guiding my time to accomplish what He has set forth for me to do, however long that may take.

Learning this aria, “Al dolce guidami” from Anne Boleyn’s Mad Scene in Donizetti’s opera Anna Bolena, took extreme patience and dedication. And it was performed as part of a very intensive concert program filled to the brim with other difficult and diverse pieces. In the opera, Anna (Anne) is facing her execution and stops to drift in reflection upon her home where she once found happiness. As soon as this aria concludes, she is lead to her beheading and sings a seething revenge song marking the dramatic end of the opera (“Coppia iniqua”). In my concert, I had to transition directly into *that* aria and a high D after the tranquility of the previous piece. It was immensely difficult!! And I worked tirelessly — but in paced steps — with my vocal coach and accompanist to be able to not just learn the arias but build the stamina to sing them with precise Bel Canto technique AND open emotional connection. “Al dolce guidami” in and of itself must be sung unrushed and with gentle reverence to the both melody and meter.

Daily I pray for patience, and especially contentment in times of pause or slowness. For in that pacing, may I see what next action must be done to positively move thru the world in love.🤍

Intentional pacing is such a valuable skill to learn. You may be fooled into believing that if you don’t rush, you’ll “miss out” (FOMO) or that others will pass you by. But the real truth is that what is meant for you will happen in its perfect timing.

Last year, I began applying an intentional seasonal perspective to my productivity — which I use to grow and operate @virtuosasociety (see our recent BLOG post on this!) as well as engage more mindfully with what was most important in other areas of my life.

That meant prioritizing rest, reflection and nourishment in Winter and setting my goals in early Spring. Taking action to achieve those goals in Summer and committing to sharing the “fruit” of those goals in Fall.

Just as a seasonal cycle flows in its own time, I’m learning to trust that God, who made the heavens and the earth, is guiding my time to accomplish what He has set forth for me to do, however long that may take.

Learning this aria, “Al dolce guidami” from Anne Boleyn’s Mad Scene in Donizetti’s opera Anna Bolena, took extreme patience and dedication. And it was performed as part of a very intensive concert program filled to the brim with other difficult and diverse pieces. In the opera, Anna (Anne) is facing her execution and stops to drift in reflection upon her home where she once found happiness. As soon as this aria concludes, she is lead to her beheading and sings a seething revenge song marking the dramatic end of the opera (“Coppia iniqua”). In my concert, I had to transition directly into *that* aria and a high D after the tranquility of the previous piece. It was immensely difficult!! And I worked tirelessly — but in paced steps — with my vocal coach and accompanist to be able to not just learn the arias but build the stamina to sing them with precise Bel Canto technique AND open emotional connection. “Al dolce guidami” in and of itself must be sung unrushed and with gentle reverence to the both melody and meter.

Daily I pray for patience, and especially contentment in times of pause or slowness. For in that pacing, may I see what next action must be done to positively move thru the world in love.🤍

Sweet Sixteen on 1.6 🎂 @victoria_k_e

What a privilege and joy to witness my beautiful girl grow more vibrant each year. She lights up every room. Is imbued with a powerful mix of intelligence and intuition. Has a biting wit and melodic laugh. Extends kindness with Christ-like compassion. Is ferociously determined on the course and on the court. Loves her family and friends deeply.

Celebrating at @topgolf ⛳️ was certainly the highlight of a fun cross-state weekend “victory tour” — watching her do what she loves makes my heart flutter every time!!!

We love you so much, our Queen Victoria 👑

Sweet Sixteen on 1.6 🎂 @victoria_k_e

What a privilege and joy to witness my beautiful girl grow more vibrant each year. She lights up every room. Is imbued with a powerful mix of intelligence and intuition. Has a biting wit and melodic laugh. Extends kindness with Christ-like compassion. Is ferociously determined on the course and on the court. Loves her family and friends deeply.

Celebrating at @topgolf ⛳️ was certainly the highlight of a fun cross-state weekend “victory tour” — watching her do what she loves makes my heart flutter every time!!!

We love you so much, our Queen Victoria 👑

Christmas + Twixmas // Part 2

Time together is a gift, and rest is a luxury.
Treasuring both. 🎁✨

Christmas + Twixmas // Part 2

Time together is a gift, and rest is a luxury.
Treasuring both. 🎁✨

Christmas + Twixmas // Part 1

Glenn Miller had it right. Every day IS a holiday.♥️

Christmas + Twixmas // Part 1

Glenn Miller had it right. Every day IS a holiday.♥️

“For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.” ✨✝️✨
Luke 2:11

Wishing you a very Merry Christmas, from our family to yours!��🎄

“For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.” ✨✝️✨
Luke 2:11

Wishing you a very Merry Christmas, from our family to yours!🎄

Swishing & singing 🎶 (and a dash of sparkling ✨)

Oh how I LOVE making music with friends during the holidays!

First “O Holy Night” of the season at last night’s beautiful Light the World Concert for our community. And reunited with glorious @suzannejstewart at the keys!! My heart was so full! ♥️ While this was a phone-free concert (refreshing!) I did capture a snippet of our rehearsal — complete with superb organizer @heidiogao working away amidst. Thank you, Heidi!

@shopburu x @pencilandpaperco taffeta ensemble (with a sparkly caplet added for the performance)
✨🌙✝️🎼

Swishing & singing 🎶 (and a dash of sparkling ✨)

Oh how I LOVE making music with friends during the holidays!

First “O Holy Night” of the season at last night’s beautiful Light the World Concert for our community. And reunited with glorious @suzannejstewart at the keys!! My heart was so full! ♥️ While this was a phone-free concert (refreshing!) I did capture a snippet of our rehearsal — complete with superb organizer @heidiogao working away amidst. Thank you, Heidi!

@shopburu x @pencilandpaperco taffeta ensemble (with a sparkly caplet added for the performance)
✨🌙✝️🎼

In appreciation of quiet moments of cozy. 🔥✨

This @alicelanehome tray is like an artist’s canvas; an open invitation for interpretation.

This season, it holds sentimental favorites…
📚 Vintage books, including a sweet little Dickens set & an Italian cookbook
��🌿 Clippings from our tree + holly berries
🕯️Mercury glass candle holders from a memorable road trip to the @magnolia store in Waco when it opened in 2015
🍊 Oranges for a nod to our childhood stockings stuffed with citrus fruit in the toe! (Anyone else have this tradition?)

Sunny is certainly warm and content with his fireplace nook.

What are the ways you create cozy seasonal corners in your home? ✨

In appreciation of quiet moments of cozy. 🔥✨

This @alicelanehome tray is like an artist’s canvas; an open invitation for interpretation.

This season, it holds sentimental favorites…
📚 Vintage books, including a sweet little Dickens set & an Italian cookbook
🌿 Clippings from our tree + holly berries
🕯️Mercury glass candle holders from a memorable road trip to the @magnolia store in Waco when it opened in 2015
🍊 Oranges for a nod to our childhood stockings stuffed with citrus fruit in the toe! (Anyone else have this tradition?)

Sunny is certainly warm and content with his fireplace nook.

What are the ways you create cozy seasonal corners in your home? ✨

✨ The final reveal! ✨

Seven weeks of fastidious prep leading up to December 8th’s PEO Christmas Tour of Homes fundraiser for scholarships… and it was an absolute JOY!🎄

Nearly 300 people toured three featured homes, and we were delighted that ours was included. Thank you to the wonderful team of PEO ladies who managed the tour!

Here’s a glimpse at our “European-Inspired Lodge” decor theme in the quiet minutes before opening our front door to the public.

My husband @coma_ebner designed our home and his uncle @curtkropf built it, six years ago. While it is still a work in progress (what house isn’t, right?!) we have vowed to love and care for this house with gratitude over comparison, and unique touches over trends.

Sharing is a huge step in overcoming fear of judgment! 😅 Opening your home to others feels vulnerable - just like opening your heart - but when done with love and to nourish and serve others, it builds up bonds of kinship and kindness. And decorating for Christmas is FUN!!! Which is why we said yes to sharing our home… and we pray it helps you feel brave enough to share YOURS too! It always delights me to see what you share!

Check out my stories & the “Christmas” highlight for more details about the process of preparing for Christmas Tour of Homes.🎄

✨ The final reveal! ✨

Seven weeks of fastidious prep leading up to December 8th’s PEO Christmas Tour of Homes fundraiser for scholarships… and it was an absolute JOY!🎄

Nearly 300 people toured three featured homes, and we were delighted that ours was included. Thank you to the wonderful team of PEO ladies who managed the tour!

Here’s a glimpse at our “European-Inspired Lodge” decor theme in the quiet minutes before opening our front door to the public.

My husband @coma_ebner designed our home and his uncle @curtkropf built it, six years ago. While it is still a work in progress (what house isn’t, right?!) we have vowed to love and care for this house with gratitude over comparison, and unique touches over trends.

Sharing is a huge step in overcoming fear of judgment! 😅 Opening your home to others feels vulnerable - just like opening your heart - but when done with love and to nourish and serve others, it builds up bonds of kinship and kindness. And decorating for Christmas is FUN!!! Which is why we said yes to sharing our home… and we pray it helps you feel brave enough to share YOURS too! It always delights me to see what you share!

Check out my stories & the “Christmas” highlight for more details about the process of preparing for Christmas Tour of Homes.🎄

Holiday tablescape reveal: a touch of woodland whimsy!

It was a such a joy to build this table from treasured and newer items primarily collected from my favorite small Oregon businesses.

Small Business Saturday is around the corner, and I encourage you to shop small, buy local and curate from the items you’ve already collected as much as possible. ♥️♥️♥️

The lovely Oregon shops and artists featured in this tablescape:
@cielohome
@cargoinc
@kateblairstone
@monticelloantiquemarketplace
@prizeshoppe
@poppyonmain

With sweet vintage touches from @susannyberg780 @darlaharman 🎀

You’re invited to see my home in person during PEO AU’s local Christmas Tour of Homes fundraiser for women’s scholarships on Dec 8th. Three festively decorated homes! Purchase tickets at Poppy on Main @poppyonmain

Holiday tablescape reveal: a touch of woodland whimsy!

It was a such a joy to build this table from treasured and newer items primarily collected from my favorite small Oregon businesses.

Small Business Saturday is around the corner, and I encourage you to shop small, buy local and curate from the items you’ve already collected as much as possible. ♥️♥️♥️

The lovely Oregon shops and artists featured in this tablescape:
@cielohome
@cargoinc
@kateblairstone
@monticelloantiquemarketplace
@prizeshoppe
@poppyonmain

With sweet vintage touches from @susannyberg780 @darlaharman 🎀

You’re invited to see my home in person during PEO AU’s local Christmas Tour of Homes fundraiser for women’s scholarships on Dec 8th. Three festively decorated homes! Purchase tickets at Poppy on Main @poppyonmain

Wishing you a holiday filled with sounds that make your soul sing, sights that inspire you to appreciate the present moment, scent that evokes pleasant memories, and enough gratitude that your heart is spilling over with love.

“Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the one who takes refuge in him.” Psalm 34:8 NIV

From the Ebner Family yours, Happy Thanksgiving!🍁

📷 @truth_and_light_studios

Wishing you a holiday filled with sounds that make your soul sing, sights that inspire you to appreciate the present moment, scent that evokes pleasant memories, and enough gratitude that your heart is spilling over with love.

“Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the one who takes refuge in him.” Psalm 34:8 NIV

From the Ebner Family yours, Happy Thanksgiving!🍁

📷 @truth_and_light_studios

Our second OSU Fall Family Weekend in the books, and a beautiful one at that.
🧡🦫🖤

Thank you to all of the Veterans in our lives - especially Lt Col (Ret) @coma_f15 and his dad, CMSgt (Ret) Charles “Tim Sr” - for their dedication and service to our country! 🇺🇸 Full circle to see Tyler serve in AF ROTC at OSU ♥️

Thank you @mrs.a.deese @jondieselpalmer @nickelmorene @krisk2014 @globalvet for football game fun!!! 🏈

Our second OSU Fall Family Weekend in the books, and a beautiful one at that.
🧡🦫🖤

Thank you to all of the Veterans in our lives - especially Lt Col (Ret) @coma_f15 and his dad, CMSgt (Ret) Charles “Tim Sr” - for their dedication and service to our country! 🇺🇸 Full circle to see Tyler serve in AF ROTC at OSU ♥️

Thank you @mrs.a.deese @jondieselpalmer @nickelmorene @krisk2014 @globalvet for football game fun!!! 🏈

🗳️🇺🇸✨

🗳️🇺🇸✨

Midweek motivation ✨ via where I find the fun @virtuosasociety

Midweek motivation ✨ via where I find the fun @virtuosasociety

BTS of our @virtuosasociety Maestra Masterclass setup for this weekend’s event!

I LOVE doing IRL events like this!!!
#lovelanguage

BTS of our @virtuosasociety Maestra Masterclass setup for this weekend’s event!

I LOVE doing IRL events like this!!!
#lovelanguage

Congratulations, Daniel & Isa! ❤️

St. Mary’s in Mt. Angel, OR has been home to so many Ebner family weddings throughout the past century. Our hearts fill with joy being there!

And to have the OG 9 Ebner sibs together again was beautiful. What a brood this family has grown to be!

Such a beautiful day!✨

Congratulations, Daniel & Isa! ❤️

St. Mary’s in Mt. Angel, OR has been home to so many Ebner family weddings throughout the past century. Our hearts fill with joy being there!

And to have the OG 9 Ebner sibs together again was beautiful. What a brood this family has grown to be!

Such a beautiful day!✨

Ciao 🍝

Ciao 🍝

Couldn’t miss the opportunity to honor my son @tyler.g.ebner for #nationalsonday ❤️

You are a gift to this world, Tyler, and I thank God for the privilege of being Mom to you and Victoria.

📷 @truth_and_light_studios

Couldn’t miss the opportunity to honor my son @tyler.g.ebner for #nationalsonday ❤️

You are a gift to this world, Tyler, and I thank God for the privilege of being Mom to you and Victoria.

📷 @truth_and_light_studios

My beautiful, beautiful girl - in every way.❤️

I love you and love being your mama @victoria_k_e

#nationaldaughtersday

📷: @truth_and_light_studios
{we loved this photoshoot, Brenna!}

My beautiful, beautiful girl - in every way.❤️

I love you and love being your mama @victoria_k_e

#nationaldaughtersday

📷: @truth_and_light_studios
{we loved this photoshoot, Brenna!}

23rd Crowniversary 👑 9.22.01
@missamerica #missamerica2002

Deeply grateful for the honor and privilege of serving in such an iconic role as the nation healed from 9/11.🇺🇸

📷
1. One of my fav captures by longtime friend & AC photographer Don Kravitz.
2. I love that this shot shows the lyrics to “There she is”🎶 on the prompter as Tony Danza sang while I walked the iconic runway.
3. Crowning moment: utter shock, joy and elation as @angelabgrey crowned me.
4. Embraced by my dear 2001 State Sisters and Miss America Sisters.
5. That crazy top-5 quiz show!
6. Final onstage question.
7. Talent performance of “O mio babbino caro” in beautiful custom gown by Nina Wager.
8. My $102 BCBG gown (off the rack at Pioneer Place Mall in Portland) being escorted onstage by @glenharman48.
9. Red metallic swimsuit! 🧨
10. The most beautifully elegant, patriotic and exciting telecast opening in Miss America history.

23rd Crowniversary 👑 9.22.01
@missamerica #missamerica2002

Deeply grateful for the honor and privilege of serving in such an iconic role as the nation healed from 9/11.🇺🇸

📷
1. One of my fav captures by longtime friend & AC photographer Don Kravitz.
2. I love that this shot shows the lyrics to “There she is”🎶 on the prompter as Tony Danza sang while I walked the iconic runway.
3. Crowning moment: utter shock, joy and elation as @angelabgrey crowned me.
4. Embraced by my dear 2001 State Sisters and Miss America Sisters.
5. That crazy top-5 quiz show!
6. Final onstage question.
7. Talent performance of “O mio babbino caro” in beautiful custom gown by Nina Wager.
8. My $102 BCBG gown (off the rack at Pioneer Place Mall in Portland) being escorted onstage by @glenharman48.
9. Red metallic swimsuit! 🧨
10. The most beautifully elegant, patriotic and exciting telecast opening in Miss America history.

Back to school week for @tyler.g.ebner 🧡🦫🖤

So fun to help feather his new nest (or in this case, “beaver den”?) - first apartment! - but still so hard to say goodbye again. Does this ever get easier?? 😭

{Tim and I can’t even look at each other during the goodbye process without bursting into tears and laughter!}

We sure love you, Tyler!! Wishing you another incredible year at OSU!

Back to school week for @tyler.g.ebner 🧡🦫🖤

So fun to help feather his new nest (or in this case, “beaver den”?) - first apartment! - but still so hard to say goodbye again. Does this ever get easier?? 😭

{Tim and I can’t even look at each other during the goodbye process without bursting into tears and laughter!}

We sure love you, Tyler!! Wishing you another incredible year at OSU!

Friend, this is a gentle reminder that across the screen, and the “highlight reel” of any platform, is humanity.

This new season of year is often bustling and busy, and if you’re finding yourself overwhelmed, above and below the surface (what can and cannot be seen) you’re not alone. And it is all the more important that hear this:

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO EARN LOVE.

Your work is not your worth.

You are inherently beautiful, valued and loved. Period. Enough. Yes.

I am constantly reminding myself and those closest to me of this… which bears repeating because it has a difficult time permeating a thick shell of fear, shame or anxiety.

Hand-in-hand with that reminder is another: don’t assume that you know what another human sees through their life lens. Just don’t!

Instead, if you ask in love what they see, and they desire to share, stay open. Your life lens can broaden for the better. BUT if someone simply isn’t able to come alongside to either ask or see, rinse and repeat step 1:

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO EARN LOVE. ❤️

Send this to someone who needs to hear how inherently loved they are today.💌

Friend, this is a gentle reminder that across the screen, and the “highlight reel” of any platform, is humanity.

This new season of year is often bustling and busy, and if you’re finding yourself overwhelmed, above and below the surface (what can and cannot be seen) you’re not alone. And it is all the more important that hear this:

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO EARN LOVE.

Your work is not your worth.

You are inherently beautiful, valued and loved. Period. Enough. Yes.

I am constantly reminding myself and those closest to me of this… which bears repeating because it has a difficult time permeating a thick shell of fear, shame or anxiety.

Hand-in-hand with that reminder is another: don’t assume that you know what another human sees through their life lens. Just don’t!

Instead, if you ask in love what they see, and they desire to share, stay open. Your life lens can broaden for the better. BUT if someone simply isn’t able to come alongside to either ask or see, rinse and repeat step 1:

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO EARN LOVE. ❤️

Send this to someone who needs to hear how inherently loved they are today.💌

May we forever strive to remember those lost in this harrowing day in 2001, alongside the brave women and men serving in the recovery effort in the weeks that followed. To our Patriots this day and always, we thank you and honor you.❤️🇺🇸

During my cabaret show Bring My Crown!👑 I share some of the lesser-known history of “the Miss America Pageant that almost wasn’t” alongside the moment at Ground Zero with three rescue workers that changed my life.

Here is a clip of this particular moment in the show from February’s hometown debut at @reserartscenter alongside @jimmie_herrod @matteveringham @shelbyblez #laurenhendrix just before performing the song “Good Girl” by @stormof69.

The details surrounding the story of our collective vote hasn’t been told much. So I gathered together interviews with a handful of my competition sisters and historical footage to retell the timeline of this pivotal piece of @missamerica history in an upcoming @virtuosasociety podcast episode. Dropping September 23rd on the 23rd Anniversary of that life changing visit to Ground Zero.

Subscribe to hear the episode when it drops at virtuosasociety.com/podcast 🎙️🎧

May we forever strive to remember those lost in this harrowing day in 2001, alongside the brave women and men serving in the recovery effort in the weeks that followed. To our Patriots this day and always, we thank you and honor you.❤️🇺🇸

During my cabaret show Bring My Crown!👑 I share some of the lesser-known history of “the Miss America Pageant that almost wasn’t” alongside the moment at Ground Zero with three rescue workers that changed my life.

Here is a clip of this particular moment in the show from February’s hometown debut at @reserartscenter alongside @jimmie_herrod @matteveringham @shelbyblez #laurenhendrix just before performing the song “Good Girl” by @stormof69.

The details surrounding the story of our collective vote hasn’t been told much. So I gathered together interviews with a handful of my competition sisters and historical footage to retell the timeline of this pivotal piece of @missamerica history in an upcoming @virtuosasociety podcast episode. Dropping September 23rd on the 23rd Anniversary of that life changing visit to Ground Zero.

Subscribe to hear the episode when it drops at virtuosasociety.com/podcast 🎙️🎧

Here she goes! 📚 10th grade / Sophomore year

Lady Pels volleyball off to a great season with Ws last week too 🏐

@victoria_k_e you’re remarkable, girl! Have a wonderful school year. 💖

{Sunny pup is always dismayed by the deceit of getting to take a “first day” pic but never actually getting to go to school. Sorry good boy but you’d chase the pelican and then what?!}

Here she goes! 📚 10th grade / Sophomore year

Lady Pels volleyball off to a great season with Ws last week too 🏐

@victoria_k_e you’re remarkable, girl! Have a wonderful school year. 💖

{Sunny pup is always dismayed by the deceit of getting to take a “first day” pic but never actually getting to go to school. Sorry good boy but you’d chase the pelican and then what?!}

Summer Rewind 🍒

Summer Rewind 🍒

Because I want the memories of this laughter-filled, friendship-centered weekend with @meghanshanley @kacibre @candacehock @colson__horton @rachelramsey82 @kellyswindell to live on the grid as the cherry on top of a beautiful Summer.

There is a Nashville-shaped piece of my heart because of these beautiful friends, and we’ve shared such a wide spectrum of life together from near and far for decades. True treasure. ✨

“Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.”

-Marcel Proust-

Because I want the memories of this laughter-filled, friendship-centered weekend with @meghanshanley @kacibre @candacehock @colson__horton @rachelramsey82 @kellyswindell to live on the grid as the cherry on top of a beautiful Summer.

There is a Nashville-shaped piece of my heart because of these beautiful friends, and we’ve shared such a wide spectrum of life together from near and far for decades. True treasure. ✨

“Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.”

-Marcel Proust-

Seeing red

❤️🌹💄💋🍷💥🍓🚨🍟🥊📌🐞🍎

A friend recently reminded me of a recital performance I did of @rickyiangordon’s beautiful art song “The Red Dress” with lyrics from the poem of the same name by prolific writer Dorothy Parker. {Among my fav Dorothy P sayings is, “I don’t know much about being a millionaire, but I’ll bet I’d be darling at it.”}

I’m fascinated by the poem, and I adore this musical arrangement of it.

Red is evocative. It is the color of life. Of passion, emotion, creativity, energy, strength, courage, physical activity, warmth, security, aggression, spirituality, love, fidelity, and more.

As I celebrate the turning over of a new page to age 44, I wear red - and reminisce about this performance (as well as share it) - as a reminder to celebrate the gift of life in all of its beauty, complexity and wonder.

💃 @hillhouse

Seeing red

❤️🌹💄💋🍷💥🍓🚨🍟🥊📌🐞🍎

A friend recently reminded me of a recital performance I did of @rickyiangordon’s beautiful art song “The Red Dress” with lyrics from the poem of the same name by prolific writer Dorothy Parker. {Among my fav Dorothy P sayings is, “I don’t know much about being a millionaire, but I’ll bet I’d be darling at it.”}

I’m fascinated by the poem, and I adore this musical arrangement of it.

Red is evocative. It is the color of life. Of passion, emotion, creativity, energy, strength, courage, physical activity, warmth, security, aggression, spirituality, love, fidelity, and more.

As I celebrate the turning over of a new page to age 44, I wear red - and reminisce about this performance (as well as share it) - as a reminder to celebrate the gift of life in all of its beauty, complexity and wonder.

💃 @hillhouse

See how I turn 44? Very demure, very mindful.🤣

{thanks to #joolslebron for bringing “demure” back into the spotlight, even if the word is often misused}

A birthday for the books. Deeply meaningful. And how very glad I am for the time I’ve been given and the people I’m lucky to do life with. Praying that in this new year I am mindful to keep every moment holy, to unabashedly say I love you, and to wonder more > worry less. Thank you God for the beautiful gift of aging. 🙏

And thank you to each and every dear heart who reached out with a message or phone call! Your thoughtfulness and kindness has filled my cup! I love you. I really do. 🫶

See how I turn 44? Very demure, very mindful.🤣

{thanks to #joolslebron for bringing “demure” back into the spotlight, even if the word is often misused}

A birthday for the books. Deeply meaningful. And how very glad I am for the time I’ve been given and the people I’m lucky to do life with. Praying that in this new year I am mindful to keep every moment holy, to unabashedly say I love you, and to wonder more > worry less. Thank you God for the beautiful gift of aging. 🙏

And thank you to each and every dear heart who reached out with a message or phone call! Your thoughtfulness and kindness has filled my cup! I love you. I really do. 🫶

Dress for the job you want 🍝🇮🇹 so I’m manifesting Italian girl summer…

Fun fact: my grandfather Adolph LOVED this song. As a first-gen American from Italy he was tickled by all the American references like baseball ⚾️ rock n roll 🎸 and whiskey 🥃. His father, Carmine, my great-grandfather, immigrated thru Ellis Island at 21 years old and separately my great-grandmother, Carmella, immigrated thru Canada - but they were from the same village in Italy… and I can’t wait to visit!

Bag: vintage from Italy (thank you @pkabram!)

Jeans: aptly named the “Lucca” style from one of my fav boutiques @koodeker

Top: @m.g._style x @dillards

Sandals: @loefflerrandall

Sunnies: a fab @juliaberolzheimer rec via @amazon

Shop via LTK in my bio🔗

Dress for the job you want 🍝🇮🇹 so I’m manifesting Italian girl summer…

Fun fact: my grandfather Adolph LOVED this song. As a first-gen American from Italy he was tickled by all the American references like baseball ⚾️ rock n roll 🎸 and whiskey 🥃. His father, Carmine, my great-grandfather, immigrated thru Ellis Island at 21 years old and separately my great-grandmother, Carmella, immigrated thru Canada - but they were from the same village in Italy… and I can’t wait to visit!

Bag: vintage from Italy (thank you @pkabram!)

Jeans: aptly named the “Lucca” style from one of my fav boutiques @koodeker

Top: @m.g._style x @dillards

Sandals: @loefflerrandall

Sunnies: a fab @juliaberolzheimer rec via @amazon

Shop via LTK in my bio🔗

Dot dot dot…

High summer ☀️ in a fresh chop and classic dressing

Dot dot dot…

High summer ☀️ in a fresh chop and classic dressing

Playing tourist in my own town at @klamathcountymuseum

Loved getting a tour from intern @victoria_k_e + learning more about the beautiful former armory building as well as what makes our community’s history unique.

Playing tourist in my own town at @klamathcountymuseum

Loved getting a tour from intern @victoria_k_e + learning more about the beautiful former armory building as well as what makes our community’s history unique.

Coastal getaway for the Fourth 🇺🇸

📸
1. Our second stay at this sweet blue bungalow.
2. Hiked down into a secluded beach spot in Shore Acres State Park. Peaceful rolling waves 🌊
3. ❤️x4
4. Our favorite OR coast activity: exploring rocky paths, tide pools, and caves.
5. Checks ‘n chowder. 🟦⬜️
6. No cell service, no problem. Mama made them jump for (her) joy… nice air @tyler.g.ebner 🆙
7. S’more fireside s’mores, plz.
8. Baby, you’re sparkler @victoria_k_e.
9. Sunset glow 🌅
10. Stereophonic seaside fireworks… and @coma_ebner feeling pure happiness. Happy Birthday, America 🇺🇸

Coastal getaway for the Fourth 🇺🇸

📸
1. Our second stay at this sweet blue bungalow.
2. Hiked down into a secluded beach spot in Shore Acres State Park. Peaceful rolling waves 🌊
3. ❤️x4
4. Our favorite OR coast activity: exploring rocky paths, tide pools, and caves.
5. Checks ‘n chowder. 🟦⬜️
6. No cell service, no problem. Mama made them jump for (her) joy… nice air @tyler.g.ebner 🆙
7. S’more fireside s’mores, plz.
8. Baby, you’re sparkler @victoria_k_e.
9. Sunset glow 🌅
10. Stereophonic seaside fireworks… and @coma_ebner feeling pure happiness. Happy Birthday, America 🇺🇸

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